Men who are super active could still find themselves in need of Viagra, a popular medication used to treat erectile dysfunction. Not only sick or weak men develop this condition. Average men can develop it as well but you might not realize it since most don’t like to talk about it. This is because of the stigma placed on erectile dysfunction by Australian society and by others around the world. If you have this condition just try to remember you aren’t alone. It is nothing to be ashamed of. It may cause you problems but there are things you can do about it so you don’t have to feel hopeless.
The first thing you need to do is contact a doctor. They can help you figure out if your erectile dysfunction is caused by something serious. If it is they can help you find a treatment. Some serious conditions can cause it and may get worse if they’re ignored. Definitely don’t just wait for things to get better because then this may happen to you. Tell your doctor all of your symptoms as well so they have a clear picture of what’s going on with your body. Doctors aren’t mind readers so you have to be open with them. You should also mention all of the medications you take because one of them may react with Viagra or a similar medication (Cialis, Levitra, Kamagra). Drug reactions can be very serious and can be easily avoided if your doctor knows all of what you’re on, even the over the counter medications and health supplements.
You also need to talk to your partner about your condition. If you don’t they may think it’s their fault and that you just don’t desire them, and this could easily lead to resentment and maybe even the breakup of your relationship. Physical intimacy is an important aspect for most couples. When there’s a drastic change in it problems often arise. If you’re up front about it being a medical problem you can’t help, though, your partner has all of the information so can try to be more supportive. They are much more likely to stick by you while a solution is found. Maybe they’ll even get in on the search. They may have valuable ideas. It can also just be nice to have their moral support when you go to doctors. This problem doesn’t affect only you. If you are in a relationship it affects your partner as well.
If you don’t feel you can easily communicate with your partner about this you might want to try counseling. This provides a neutral space for everyone to talk about what’s bothering them. The counselor is there to listen and to facilitate. They do not judge or take sides. They may also be able to teach you to communicate more effectively with your partner. They can suggest exercises to be done both at the sessions and at home. These can open up lines of communication. You can learn how to talk to your partner without embarrassment. This is not always easy for some of us but it very important since communication is key in any relationship. Many have been saved by the things learned in counseling. It’s often covered by health insurance plans as well since society is beginning to realize how important mental health is.
I am self employed. General Practitioner in Melbourne, VIC. My special interest: male reproductive system.